Compton

And so as one longtime issue has finally been buried (for me at least) another raises it’s pointless ugly head. 

I’m not proud of all the decisions I’ve ever made but in many of them the actions I took were based on the circumstances I was put in. For example, if a woman believes that entering a relationship with a man who already has children means she will never be number 1 in his life (that title obviously going on his kids), then goes on to complain when he puts his children before her, it becomes difficult to take her complaints seriously. 

She apparently knew things wouldn’t be smooth. Then goes on to complain about it. A bit like reading today’s weather forecast that it will rain, then having a tantrum when it starts to rain. 


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